There has been so many updates in the last few years but its a huge waste of time writing them down on here because you numb human siblings never come on here, Oct-2024.
March 17 2025
Well I need to post more on here,. Mom has gotten sick a few times this last year but has managed to avoid any serious illness. Her heal has been decent considering she is heading to 90 this May. Alejandro has been living here sense last June of 2024 and mom has been loving it. Her mental state has been ok and her kids still do not visit as they should. I have done more then I should have in getting you guys (siblings) to come here to see her more often. Mom has repeated this to me several times throughout the years of how unfair it is that she has so many kids and nobody comes and visits her. I will say one sibling has stepped it up and I hope they continue to visit more often.
She is not on any new medications and her weight has been the same. The side room has been done and we did have Christmas here at moms and it was pretty cool. We need to have more events here.
Mom needs all of you all to make more of an effort. Nobody can say I have not tried to get you all here to see her more often.
March 3 2022
Its been over a year that I have not updated this site. I have sent group texts from time to time to keep you all updated on important events, which thankfully there has not been anything bad.. She is still taking all the same medications and has AFIB which at times does get pretty bad, and her pulse will go up to 160 bpm. Mom is getting older and is in need of her kids attention. She is greatly neglected by her kids. I don’t even make an effort to get her cell phone connected again. When she did have it the last 6 months she only had 42 total minutes of talk time. So it was not worth it. Hope things get better with that. I love you all but am disappointed. Good news is we are planning on getting together for Easter 2022. You guys better show up. We did have a thanksgiving 2021. and nobody showed up, and for Valentines day 2022 NONE of her kids gave her a HAPPY VALENTINE. Nobody can blame me for any of this,. Yes I am scolding you guys lol, but hey its my job to,. hahaha — I will be posting more on her site. See you all soon. Oh yea mom did get to visit Ramiro for Christmas 2021 so god is good,.
December 17 2020
The link is for moms wish list from Amazon. These years she should get gifts she needs not what we feel are cool lol. You may add your own to the idea. Hope all are well. This has been a weird year and hope things get better soon for all things to get back as normal as possible.
December 1 2020
I may have been a bit harsh on my September update. I know we all love our mom but we do need to put our own emotions aside and do what is best for her. We are in a new pace with her. She is good considering her age but my goal is to make her last years healthy mentally and physically –She goes in for her cardiologist appointment at the end of Dec and in Jan she has her ophthalmologist appointment. Her health is the same. This holiday season has been tough on all of us. I hope it gets better. Love you all. Christmas this year needs to be special. I am going to make a wish list for mom on amazon. I will send link some other time.
September 14 2020
I am here sitting at my desk updating this website. It took me hours to build and complete. It gave me much time to think about how much mom is neglected by her family. I know you guys might get mad at me but its true. I am the only person in this family who has a right to say this. I have been living with mom for 20 years straight. I know who calls her and who does not call her, and I know who comes over to visit (non holidays-special events) You guys should be ashamed of yourselves. Now the ones that do visit her regularly and call her regularly this isn’t for you.
Mom is getting older, she is 85. That alone should motivate you all to make time for her, but then there is the history she has with her kids. She has had a very tough life and showed us nothing but respect and love. She taught us to love the lord and respect oneself and to always be there for one another. Mom is a great person, and the older she is getting the more she is evolving into her elder self and you all have missed out on so many years of this process.
There is zero excuses to make so save your breath with the excuses. Especially trying to say its because of my OCD-Nope. I will never say don’t come visit. Yes I will insist that at this time you all respect the Corona virus and wear a mask and be careful. During this time of me updating her site gave me such sadness for mom. I know we all can get busy but for heaven sake this is your mom. Time is free. There is not one day that she doesn’t talk about her kids. The day will come god forbid that she passes away and I want you all to close your eyes for one moment and ask yourselves, did you visit her enough or call her enough(I have the answer to that!!).
These are scary times. Imagine how she feels inside. So get mad at me all you want and try and talk crap of how dare Ricky say this to us, but you all know I am right. I am not going to tell you guys to call or make more time. I am just letting you ALL know it is bullshit. So again save your excuses! Mom made none when she raised us and worked her ass off and showed us the way! I love every single one of my brothers and sisters but my present day loyalty is for mom. Even when mom passes away I am going to try and make this home the place for family parties and keep the unity as much as possible. That is moms wish to keep the family together. I have been here for all of you guys and you all know that is true. I love you and will always be here for anyone of you.
Also mom is at the age where she does get loopy and has much more anxiety than before, so before you guys start saying you will pick her up and what not,..First start coming around and get her used to the change of pace you are at then she will feel comfortable going to place to place.She is very deepened of me. She is not the same. We all need to accept that. I am not saying she is out of her mind but change causes her anxiety and gets her loopy. Through CT imaging she has showed average brain degeneration for her age (normal for being 85). Lets remember she ha a brain infection years ago and in 2017 suffered a TIA stroke. She is awesome considering all that. Love you all.. And sorry if I upset anyone but its just a little verbal spanking you all needed haha.
PLEASE MAKE SURE TO CHECK OUT THE PHOTOS I POSTED ON THE SITE.
August 28-2020—
Moms health has been pretty stable. She is taking a diuretic for her edema and that is a slow progress. Her vitals are stable at best. We have cut her sugars Monday through Friday and she keeps her calories at a fit level. Weekends she has a cheat meal. The pills she is taking tend to have a weight gaining affect on her. She has been a hard worker her entire life and has had many downs in life but has always kept her faith in god and lived to high moral standards. She has 8 kids and many grandchildren. YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW IT BY LOOKING AT HER CALL LOGS ON HER PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
July 10-2020–
It has been a few months from my last update. Moms health is pretty much the same. Her blood pressure is normal, and her afib is still an issue but as long as she doesn’t not stress and stays hydrated it is manageable.
Feb 22, 2020—
It is said that a person can survive anything with the love of their family. Mom is a great example of that. She has a great pure heart and has sinned very little in her life and has been through so much. I see her every single day and spend allot of time with her and I know her worries and I know her pains both physical and emotional.. She cries allot for her family and is in need of her kids more today than ever. She gave us so much for her having so little. All I am going to say is you all need to step it up or you will all regret it when it comes time for god to call on her in heaven. I love you all and I mean well with this message.
Now to give an update. She is still working with her doctors to give the orthopedic surgeon more comfort in performing the operation(knee). She has a high count of cortisol levels. A stress hormone.. Double the levels and so that has the surgeon concerned. She is going to see the neurologist for a followup on her brain scan (March 9th) .
She is still taking the same medications along with natural supplements. . She deserves everything she desires and the main thing she wants is free and its up to us to provide that!